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Reflections on Psalm 138: Unashamed Praise

I will praise you, O Lord, with all my heart;

    before the “gods” I will sing your praise;

I will bow down toward your holy temple

    and will praise your name for your love and your faithfulness,

    for you have exalted above all things

    your name and your word.  Psalm 138:1-2





How do our sons and daughters praise God?  Do they do it quietly and secretly, embarrassed or awkward if others are nearby?  Or do they praise with boldness and joy, wanting others to see their devotion and passion for the Lord?  It matters how you praise.


In Psalm 138, David speaks of praising God with his whole heart.  The word for heart is the Hebrew word ‘leb’ and it means “the inner man, will, mind and heart” (1).  He praised God with all that he had in him.  He praised God with all that he was.


He wasn’t ashamed to praise the living God before the ‘gods’ of this world, the elohim- those rulers, judges and divine representatives at sacred places or those who reflected divine majesty and power, both the tangible and those that abide in the dark presence of the spirit world (2).  


Sometimes, if we’re honest, we hold back because we’re afraid of judgment from others or perhaps we’re intimidated or feel awkward.  God doesn’t ask us to ‘make a scene’ but He does want  us to represent Him boldly and unashamedly.


When do we praise God?  Is it only when we feel inspired? Grateful?  Joyful?  Praise should not be dependent on how we feel. On the contrary, praising God is fully dependent on Who He is, unchanging, eternal, immortal, almighty, forgiving, redeeming, merciful, faithful…you could go on and on extolling His attributes and character.  That should be what inspires our praise.  Praise should be a daily practice, regardless of our feelings, our circumstances, and our attitude.  


Praise has the power to change our perspective and our attitude.  It shifts us from a ‘me’ focus to a ‘He’ focus and in so doing, it changes us.  It lifts the darkness.  It brings God into clearer focus and helps our spiritual mindset become clearer and unencumbered by the cares of this world and the oppression that seeks to derail us.  It moves us from a focus on the temporal to a focus on the eternal.


Did you know that darkness cannot abide where praise dwells?  1 John 1:5 “This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.” That’s why, when we experience dark thoughts, and when oppression is strong, we need to praise the Lord.  Step into His presence, sing His praises, give thanks for all He’s done and Who He is.  The darkness will flee; it’s incompatible with God’s light.

Psalm 22:3 tells us that God is enthroned on the praise of His people… He inhabits our praise… think about that.  When we praise God, we are celebrating, honoring, and immersing ourselves in His presence.  No wonder the enemy flees! There is power in praise!  


As believing parents, we want our kids to understand and experience a vibrant spiritual life that comes from being redeemed and actively pursuing Jesus.  We want to see them consumed with praise for the Lord because He’s done a work in their life.  We want to see evidence of spiritual vitality and a passionate commitment to Christ.  And God wants to see it, too.


Praise shouldn’t be limited to Sunday mornings.  Nor should it be reserved for the ‘good times’ or mountain top experiences. Praise is what kindles and holds fast the mindset of all things focused on Christ.  It takes our eyes off of us and our problems and sets them firmly on our Creator and Redeemer who will make all things new (Rev. 21:5) and will reconcile all things to Himself (Col. 1:20). Praise isn’t ambiguous, either.  Praise is God-focused, purposeful adoration and worship of our Lord and Savior.


Scripture gives us SO many reasons for praise; here are seven scriptures to pray over our sons and daughters this week, asking the Lord to help them recognize these truths and to fill them with a deep need to rise up and praise His name!

  1. We are made in His image. Even in our fallen human state, surrounded by sin and incapable of pleasing God, we are image-bearers of the Creator. Praise God for His amazing Creation!

    “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Ps 139:14

  2. God counsels us, even when we’re not aware- He’s working in our lives. Praise God for His eternal wisdom, counsel, and truth.

    “I will praise the LORD, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me.” Ps 16:7 

  3. God sees our grief.  He is the only one who can turn our sorrow and heartache into joy and make beauty out of the ashes of what happens in this fallen, sinful world. Praise Him for His powerful comfort and understanding.  Jesus is a man of sorrow, acquainted with grief- He knows; praise Him for that.

    “You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing to you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever.” Ps 30:11-12 

  4. He is our joy and delight- what else can compare?  We can praise Him through music- (even if we’re not musical)!  God enjoys our sounds of praise!

    “Then I will go to the altar of God, to God, my joy and my delight. I will praise you with the lyre, O God, my God.” Ps 43:4 

  5. He is righteous.  He is our hope.  He alone is our salvation and His goodness is beyond measuring. Praise the Lord that our God is greater than our minds can ever fully grasp!

    “But as for me, I will always have hope; I will praise you more and more. My mouth will tell of your righteousness, of your salvation all day long, though I know not its measure. I will come and proclaim your mighty acts, O Sovereign Lord ; I will proclaim your righteousness, yours alone.” Ps. 71:14-16

  6. His redemption is powerful, eternal, and free. Praise God!

    “I will praise you with the harp for your faithfulness, O my God; I will sing praise to you with the lyre, O Holy One of Israel. My lips will shout for joy when I sing praise to you- I, whom you have redeemed.” Psalm 71:22-23

  7. There is not a blessed thing in this life that can separate us from His love! There is no distance, power, or authority that can overcome His love and purpose. Not a thing. Praise the Lord for His mighty, eternal, unchanging love!

    “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:38-39



This week, let’s do two things.  First, model we need to model what it means to praise the Lord.  Do it every day.  Do it boldly, with joy!  Next, we should pray daily for our sons and daughters to come to a new place of praise and worship for and of God in their own lives.  Pray that they learn that it’s more than just motions or out of obligation, but it is a genuine need and command to rise up and praise God because of all He is and all He’s done in their lives.



Pray without ceasing, friends!


  1. H3820 - lēḇ - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h3820/niv/wlc/0-1/ 
  2. H430 - 'ĕlōhîm - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h430/niv/wlc/0-1/




Prodigal Prayer

Are you praying for a prodigal?  The scriptures above are so appropriate to pray for those who don’t know the Lord or who are rebelling against His presence and purpose.  Pray through each verse asking God to melt their hardened heart, open their eyes to see Who He is, open their mind to understand the Truth of Scripture, give them the ability to receive the knowledge of what Jesus did for them and to embrace His redemption and forgiveness.  Friends, nothing can thwart the purposes of God and He does not ignore the pleas of His children.  Pray fervently, pray faithfully, and watch God work.



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Questioning God

“How long, O Lord , must I call for help, but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, "Violence!" but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds.” Habakkuk 1:2-3

Some might think that questioning God demonstrates a rebellious attitude toward God, a lack of fear of Him, or perhaps a weak faith.  Others would say it’s not for man to question God, yet God has given us a reasoning mind that, when we don’t understand something, will ask questions and seek truth and wrestle with things beyond our ability to grasp.

We may even hesitate to admit that we’ve questioned God ourselves in the midst of tragedy, pain, loss, or hardship.  Why?  Why, Lord?  Why me?  Why now?  Why this?  Why not healing, rescue, deliverance? 

Our limited minds cannot grasp the eternal, limitless mind of God.  Yet we try…and then we get angry or bitter towards Him when we don’t get the answers we think we deserve or we fall into despair thinking that we’ve been punished or abandoned.  Oh how our minds jump to conclusions!

Just as we explained to our sons and daughters as we raised them, there is a right way and a wrong way to ask questions.  The same applies when we talk to God.  There is a right way and a wrong way to question Him. Below are some steps to ensure the questioning is with a right heart and doesn’t become accusing and bitter.


  1. First, determine your motivation.

    Are your questions coming from a place of truly wanting to know and understand, or are they motivated by bitterness, anger, and a desire to rail at God? Because one is inquiry and the other is accusatory.

    “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.” Proverbs 4:23

  2. Have a heart of humility.

    Know your place.  Who is God?  Who are you? Where do you stand in that relationship?  Before we bring any questions to God, we must acknowledge Who God is.  We need to humble ourselves before Him.

“I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me. I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times, what is still to come. I say, ‘My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please.’” Isaiah 46:9-10

“Who among the gods is like you, Lord? Who is like you— majestic in holiness,  awesome in glory, working wonders?” Exodus 15:11

A great Biblical example is the conversation between Job and God.  Despite all of the suffering God allowed in Job’s life, He was still sovereign and still very much in control.  When Job began to question Him, God responded and reminded Job of his position and of God’s eternal nature, perfect wisdom, unmatched power, and sovereign authority:

“Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation?

    Tell me, if you understand. 

Who marked off its dimensions? Surely you know!

Have you ever given orders to the morning,

    or shown the dawn its place,

Have you journeyed to the springs of the sea

    or walked in the recesses of the deep?

Have the gates of death been shown to you?

    Have you seen the gates of the deepest darkness?

Have you comprehended the vast expanses of the earth?

    Tell me, if you know all this.

“Will the one who contends with the Almighty correct him?

    Let him who accuses God answer him!” Job 38:4-5, 12, 16-18;  Job 40:2

Job responded in humility.  He understood his place.  He realized that the Sovereign God could choose to do whatever He planned.  It was not for Job to question, but to trust.  

Then Job replied to the Lord:

“I know that you can do anything,
    and no one can stop you.”

“You asked, ‘Who is this that questions my wisdom with such ignorance?’
    It is I—and I was talking about things I knew nothing about,
    things far too wonderful for me.”
  Job 42:1-3

3. Take time to learn the attributes of God.

As human beings, we have finite understanding and experience.  We are time bound and limited; we struggle to grasp the eternal and really anything that exceeds our boundaries or occurs outside of our senses.  If we learn about God’s character and attributes, we will gain perspective on our situation and our distress in light of eternity and in the bounds of God’s sovereignty. It can temper our bitterness to enable us to surrender in the Presence of God and to HIs purpose and plan:

God is Eternal

“Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever you had formed the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.” Ps 90:2

“Of old you laid the foundation of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands. They will perish, but you will remain; they will all wear out like a garment. You will change them like a robe, and they will pass away, but you are the same, and your years have no end.” Ps 102:25-27


God is Sovereign

“Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.” Isa 40:28


God’s wisdom and power is limitless and unsearchable

“Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.” Isaiah 40:28


God is omniscient, knowing all, and He is omnipotent-all powerful. He has purpose in whatever hardship He allows and is fully in control over them.

“But the eyes of the LORD are on those who fear him, on those whose hope is in his unfailing love, to deliver them from death and keep them alive in famine. We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and our shield. In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name. May your unfailing love be with us, LORD, even as we put our hope in you.” Psalm 33:18-22


God has plans and purposes beyond our understanding

“Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides You, Who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him.” Isaiah 64:4


4. Know that any spiritual discernment and understanding of the situation will only come through the Holy Spirit.  

Our limited, mortal minds cannot begin grasp the eternal, spiritual nature of God’s work. We need the intervention and disclosure of the Holy Spirit to enable us to discern God’s work.

“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him” 1 Corinthians 2:9

Corinthians goes on to say, “But God has revealed it to us by his Spirit.” 1 Corinthians 2:10

“We have not received the spirit of the world but the Spirit who is from God, that we may understand what God has freely given us.” 1 Corinthians 2:12


5. Respond, don’t react.

Instead of reacting to the situation and circumstances, we need to choose to respond.  Lord, what would you have me learn?  What is it I need to understand?


Rather than allowing ourselves to cave in to anger, we need to seek the Lord and ask the Holy Spirit to work in our hearts and minds to reveal to us what God is doing and what his purpose is.   It is the difference between being godly over being fleshly.

“The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned.” I Corinthians 2:14

We must ask ourselves, is our response a reflection of wisdom or foolishness.  Are we trusting in circumstances or the Sovereign Lord.  Are we willing to walk in faith?

“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1

It’s easy to trust when you see things playing out logically, or in ways that benefit your goals and dreams.  But faith is trusting what we do not see and having confidence in the promises of God, even when it’s not easily discerned. We must remember,

“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him” 1 Corinthians 2:9


When our sons and daughters encounter trouble and hardship (and they will) we as parents, mentors, and friends have a choice.  What will we say in response to their questions? How will we counsel them? Will we react in kind and lose our self control, becoming angry or hysterical, or will we respond with Godly wisdom and the peace that passes understanding?  If we know Jesus as our Savior and are indwelt by the Holy Spirit, we should always choose the latter. 

Questioning God is something that we all will do at some point in our lives because we will all face circumstances and challenges that exceed our capacity to understand and surpass our coping skills and overwhelm our heart’s ability to embrace.  Yet, God is there.  He’s waiting to hear from us, He’s ready to answer, and He’s always present to supply our needs and sustain us through whatever it is we’re facing.

"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33


Far too often, our reactions demonstrate we have more faith in the power of our circumstances to destroy us than in the Sovereign God of the Universe to deliver us.

Let’s be purposeful to point our sons and daughters to the cross.  Let’s be deliberate about doing the same when we face hardship ourselves.  Our children learn by watching us- even as adults.  Let’s give them something worthy to emulate.  Jesus and only Jesus should be our focus, our desire, our comfort, our refuge, and our strength.  If we’re drawing strength and peace from another source, it’s artificial and cannot sustain us. Let’s go to the Authentic Source of life, strength, purpose and peace. Let’s cling tightly to Jesus.


“Oh Lord, God of the heavens and the earth.  Before this world ever began, You were.  You are always present and working.  You always will be- You are eternal.  That is more than my mind can grasp and for that I am so grateful.  I know that my God is bigger than anything I will ever face, stronger than any enemy, and Your wisdom is more profound than I can comprehend. I pray that You would give me strength, discernment, and wisdom to encourage my sons and daughters.  I pray especially for (name) as they struggle.  Lord, You see them, You love them, and I know You have a purpose and plan that is beyond our understanding.  I pray that You will protect them from bitterness.  Open their eyes to see whether they are responding to you or reacting in anger and bitterness. Give them a humble heart to listen for Your voice and trust Your work.  Lord, even when they don’t understand, help them to rely on Your goodness, Your lovingkindness, Your Sovereign power and Your eternal plan. Remind them of Your attributes.  Then, give them strength and wisdom to seek the Holy Spirit for discernment.  Lord, if they do not know you personally, if they are walking a path that is not with Jesus, I pray that You would use this situation to bring them to repentance and to salvation in Jesus through His death on the cross and His resurrection from the dead.  Fill them with joy in Your Presence so that no matter what circumstances they face here, they know you have far better things planned for them in eternity with You, things that our minds can’t even begin to imagine.  I pray, Father, that through Your Son, Jesus and through the Holy Spirit working, alive and active in their heart, that they would listen for Your voice, be ready for Your answers, and be trusting that You will never leave or forsake them.  Give me courage to support them correctly, using Your Word and Your wisdom to point them to Jesus, again and again.  In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.”

Be still, my soul! the Lord is on your side;
Bear patiently the cross of grief or pain;
Leave to your God to order and provide;
In ev'ry change he faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul! your best, your heav’nly friend
Thru' thorny ways leads to a joyful end.

Be still, my soul! your God does undertake
To guide the future as he has the past;
Your hope, your confidence, let nothing shake;
all now mysterious shall be bright at last.
Be still, my soul! the waves and winds still know
His voice who ruled them while he lived below.

Kathrina von Schlegel (1)


Pray without ceasing.

  1. von Schlegel, K. (1752). Be still, my soul. Hymnary.org. https://hymnary.org/text/be_still_my_soul_the_lord_is_on_thy_side#Author

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